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The Hookup: Somebody's Watching You
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Wow, I finally did it tonight. I stalked Mr. Vanilla, my ex-boyfriend, on Facebook!
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A year ago, I was crying over this dude; wondering what went wrong, what I had done to make him want to leave. I can’t believe how stupid I feel right now about letting myself feel like that. I can’t help but think, “WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING?” I look at photos of Mr. Vanilla and I don’t even recognize him anymore.
So, I want to thank Mr. Vanilla for breaking up with me—otherwise, I still might still be with him now. Thinking things were right, when they were so completely wrong. Love is blind, they say.
He’s with another girl now and she’s just like him. They’re perfect for each other.
I also discovered his ex-wife on Facebook which is so weird. Since I’m so freaking nosy I really wanted to know what had gone wrong in their marriage. I’d heard his side of the story but I wanted her side too. As many of you know, he abruptly broke up with me without even giving me a proper explanation. Guess what? He ended up leaving me for his latest girl.
I wonder if his ex-wife knows that he cheated on her with me? He ended their relationship a few weeks after he met me. Does his current lady love know about his piss poor track record?
When I was dating him I felt like I was Batman and he was my Robin, a sidekick by my side. I don’t want to compare apples and oranges but with Sam, I feel like the Superwoman to his Superman. He lifts me up when I’m down, he’s just as strong as I am and I know he’ll be there for me no matter what. It’s weird how you can tell two people who make you feel so different that you love them and mean it both times.
I KNOW you’ve stalked an ex online! How did you feel about it? Did you feel like you were totally over him or her or did you miss your ex? Would you tell a new boyfriend that you looked up an old one? Tell me the truth chicas!
Un Abrazo Fuerte,
Lex
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